Onward & Upward: The Importance of Thoughtful, Responsible Onboarding for New Clients (or Employees)

“The beginning is the most important part of the work.”

Plato

Onboarding isn’t just a checklist or a kickoff call — it’s the foundation of every successful working relationship. Whether you’re bringing on a new employee or signing a new client, the first few weeks (and months) set the tone for everything else to follow.

The analogies for Onboarding are endless

• preparing an airplane for takeoff

• planting a garden

• incubating new life

  
  

It’s the quiet but vital phase where trust, understanding, and systems take shape beneath the surface. When done with patience and intention, this groundwork ensures that once the partnership blooms or takes off, it’s steady, sustainable, and ready to soar.

When done right, onboarding establishes and builds trust, clarity, and confidence, and creates the conditions for long-term satisfaction and retention. In this post we'll explore why conscious onboarding can make or break your business.

A thoughtful onboarding process communicates one key message: 'you matter here, you're safe here, and you can trust me.'

Why It Matters

Your onboarding process could be difference between a shallow, transactional relationship and a true longterm partnership.

• For employees, this means understanding expectations, communication styles, and company culture.

• For clients, it’s about defining scope, responsibilities, boundaries, and mutual respect. In both cases, effective onboarding reduces friction, prevents misunderstandings, and sets clear expectations for success.

Sadly, many organizations and freelancers skip this step or rush through it. Managers may assume new hires will “figure it out,” while service providers may dive into deliverables without first ensuring alignment.

The result? Confusion, frustration, and sometimes early disengagement. A little extra attention at the start can save hours of course-correction later.

Intentional onboarding demonstrates professionalism, empathy, and respect. It tells clients and team members alike: you’re not just another project or hire — you’re part of something we’re building together. 

The Power of Intentionality

Leaders who take time to understand their partners preferences (like how someone gives and receives feedback, or how they like to communicate) create safer, more effective working relationships.

Comprehensive onboarding isn’t just about being organized; it’s about building trust. It’s how you transform first impressions into lasting relationships. Clients who feel guided and understood are far more likely to renew, refer, and rave about your work

When you show up with a strong, detailed and clear onboarding process, clients feel supported and secure. They see that you take your craft seriously and are committed to transparency.

“I truly believe that onboarding is an art. Each new employee brings with them a potential to achieve and succeed. To lose the energy of a new hire through poor onboarding is an opportunity lost.”

Sarah Wetzel

What Thoughtful, Responsible Onboarding Looks Like

A great onboarding process blends both Yin and Yang, masculine and feminine, active and passive approaches. It’s both human, and systematic. Here’s what that balance and efficiency looks like:

• Informal Connection: Start with a simple conversation in your Discovery Call. This open, free-flow dialogue helps you understand the person behind the project — their values, their feelings, their communication style, and vision. It builds trust and emotional connection.

• Structured Systems: Follow up with more formal questionnaires, forms, or a clear, organized system to capture the information or logistical details needed to move forward.

• Slow & Deliberate: Consider the concept of "probationary or trial period" for new clients as a built-in part of your onboarding. Building a partnership slowly and intentionally allows both you and the client to assess alignment before committing long-term. This isn’t about distrust — it’s about discernment, ensuring the story of your collaboration remains sustainable, respectful, and creatively fulfilling.

• Relationship Building: Schedule regular check-ins, especially in the first 90 days. This keeps the relationship alive, reduces uncertainty, and builds loyalty and trust for the long-haul.

At its core, onboarding is about making people feel welcomed, informed, and supported right from day one. When done right, it drives engagement, boosts performance, and helps retain talent for the long haul.

What To Include In your Proposal & Proposal Meeting:

Including the following details showcases your professionalism, expertise and commitment to quality. It ensures greater credibility, likeability and trust and reduce potential conflict and misunderstanding down the road by establishing clear boundaries and educating clients on the depth and complexity of the work

• Heartfelt Introduction - Thank you, Testimonials

• Services/Scope Outline - What's Included and What's Not, Project Deliverables, Timelines

• Input vs Output - Resource Access, Roles, Responsibilities, Expectations

• Communication Preferences & Expectations - Transparency, Openness, Channels, Response time, Efficient Problem-Solving

• Learning Style

  • Visual - charts, infographics, and videos

  • Auditory - phone calls or verbal explanations

  • Written- detailed reports, emails, guides

• Safety & Legality - Confidentiality and IP: Protection of sensitive info

• Changes & Revisions

Learning styles significantly influence client relations in freelance marketing by shaping how marketers understand, communicate with, and tailor their services to clients’ preferences and needs. Recognizing and adapting to different learning styles can enhance communication effectiveness, build stronger rapport, and improve client satisfaction.

Showing awareness and respect for a client’s learning style demonstrates empathy and professionalism, fostering trust and loyalty which faciliates better collaboration and communication.

BONUS: Record a short walkthrough video with your proposal and onboarding explaining key details. This personal touch helps clients feel seen and valued — while reducing confusion down the road.

“Front loading the relationship is the recipe to higher renewals and expansions. When customers fail to launch, you never win back their business. It’s onboarding that drives renewals.”

Donna Weber

Saying Goodbye Professionally

Off-boarding is an often-overlooked but essential part of the client relationship. Just as onboarding sets the tone for collaboration, off-boarding helps ensure closure, respect, and professionalism when a project or partnership ends. It’s about normalizing transparent communication—letting your original collaborators know when you’re moving on, rather than disappearing.

A simple “heads up” allows both parties to part ways gracefully, update portfolios, and maintain mutual respect. When handled well, off-boarding preserves goodwill, protects creative integrity, and leaves the door open for future collaboration.

When you hear from a client that they’re moving on:

• Wish them the best, and actually mean it.

• Remove your site credit. The work presented will no longer be mine.

• Take their project out of my resumé, marketing, and portfolio as needed.

Onboarding is like anything in life: the more you give, the more you recieve.

Wrapping It Up

Onboarding is not an administrative formality — it’s an act of kindness, care and respect. It’s how we build clarity, connection, and confidence from day one — the kind of foundation that supports long-term growth, trust, and mutual success.

“What’s well begun is half done.”

Horace

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Erin Ratliff is a holistic business coach and consultant specializing in organic growth + visibility for heart-led soul-preneurs and energy-sensitive self-starters in pursuit of personal and planetary healing.

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