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Self-Healing for Solopreneurs: Why Doing Inner Work Is The Ultimate Growth Strategy

  • Writer: Erin Ratliff
    Erin Ratliff
  • Sep 20
  • 5 min read

Updated: Sep 22

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"As an enterpreneur your dharma is to awaken yourself so that you can then awaken others."

Kathrin Zenika


Solo entrepreneurship is an extraordinary journey of creativity and independence—but it also demands intense dedication, resilience, and self-awareness.


Beyond the long hours and business know-how, the real challenge is you: how you respond to uncertainty, rejection, and the daily tests of your own mind.


Entrepreneurship is often an act of rebellion—a choice to break family cycles or cultural expectations. This path will inevitably surface old traumas and limiting beliefs. In this post we'll explain why and how to lean in and let these insecurities rise. They’re signposts and signals that you’re ready for expansion.


"Build the business, yes. But don’t forget to also build the person who runs it."

Leila Hormozi


The Hidden Demands of Going Solo

Running your own business isn’t just spreadsheets and social posts. It’s:

  • Constant isolation

  • Relentless self-promotion

  • Iron-clad self-discipline

  • Repeated rejection

  • Feast-and-famine income cycles

  • An always-on mental load


Those are the obvious hurdles. But the biggest requirement of entrepreneurship is personal development. No career exposes you more to human psychology or forces you to meet your own patterns head-on.


"Entrepreneruship is just as much about mindset as it is about marketing"

Justin Welsch


Inner Child Work & Entrepreneurship

Many entrepreneurs assume they just need better marketing tactics or more efficient systems. But strategy isn’t the real stumbling block. The deeper work begins with healing the Inner Child—the part of us that formed beliefs about safety, worthiness, and love long before we opened a business.


Healing childhood wounds frees the creativity and courage that business requires. Inner child work helps you:

  • Dissolve Emotional Blocks that fuel fear or self-doubt.

  • Unleash Creativity by reconnecting with curiosity and play.

  • Show Up Authentically so you attract aligned clients and partners.

  • Maintain Work-Life Balance by honoring your need for rest and joy.

  • Build Resilience to navigate inevitable setbacks.

  • Align with Purpose so your business reflects your true passions


“If you restore balance in your own self, you will be contributing immensely to the healing of the world.”

Deepak Chopra


Healing From the Inside Out

Self-sabotage is any conscious or unconscious pattern that blocks our own growth or undermines what we truly desire. At its core, it's a form of self-abandonment: betraying our authentic needs for approval or safety.


For entrepreneurs and creators, it often surfaces as resistance to being seen or to receiving support.


Self-sabotage often shows up when we’re excited about a goal yet unconsciously create obstacles that keep success out of reach. It can show up as:

  • Downplaying talents or worth

  • Doubting our future or inner knowing

  • Procrastinating or abandoning projects

  • Overworking, people-pleasing, or perfectionism

  • Avoiding help, praise, or visibility


When this happens, we may feel stress, overwhelm, shame, guilt, anxiety, or hopelessness.


Instead of pushing through with brute force, we need to pause and listen. Recognizing these patterns is the first step to releasing them.


What other experience in life forces you to examine your ability to be seen, be authentic, be vulnerable, be wrong, be important?


Core Wounds to Heal

There are so many Inner Roadblocks you may wrestle with in life and business. The most common include:

  • Imposter Syndrome: doubting your skills and success.

  • People-Pleasing: putting others’ comfort above your own.

  • Perfectionism: chasing flawless results at the expense of well-being.


    When you address and clarify the layers of insecurity within, your business stops being a struggle and starts reflecting your authentic self.

  • Money: Rewrite the stories you inherited about scarcity and “deserving” prosperity.

  • Desire: Trust that what you truly want is your birthright.

  • Purpose: Know your why—the larger meaning or impact you want to have in the world.

  • Genius: Know your how—the specific talents, skills, and natural strengths you excel at with joy and ease.

  • Sovereignty: Build the courage to choose and act even when outcomes are uncertain.

  • Spiritual: Cultivate a spiritual practice—whether meditation, prayer, or movement—that recharges your inner power and connect you to Source/Spirit/Creator Divine Mother

  • Visibility: Learn to feel safe being seen and heard. Authentic and aligned self expression is freeing.



To achieve what you've never had you must evolve into what you've never been.

Equation for Success (that EVERYONE has access to right now) : Delusional self-belief + Consistent aligned action + Self-understanding through Inner child work + Shadow work

Reclaiming Self-Worth

Our culture teaches us to link worth to external proof: money, praise, appearance, achievements. But every time you attach your value to an outcome, you hand away your power.


Instead, practice bringing worth back home:

  • Set boundaries based on your needs.

  • Measure value by your own inner compass.

  • Anchor focus on the process, not just the reward.

  • Hold identity as something unshakable, beyond titles or numbers.

Each challenge in entrepreneuership is an invitation to return to yourself.

Aligned Action for Everyday Growth


Journaling & Reflection: Track your thoughts and wins to deepen self-awareness.


Positive Self-Talk: Treat experiences as lessons, not evidence of inadequacy.


Affirm: I deserve to feel safe in my body, to use my voice and to experience the joys of impact, influence, and overflow.


Mindfulness & Meditation: Create daily stillness to lower stress and sharpen clarity.


Rest & Nature: Prioritize quality sleep and regular “Vitamin N”—time outdoors to reset your nervous system.


Conscious Movement: Move your body—walk, stretch, dance—to release tension and boost mood.


Support & Connection: Seek communities or mastermind groups to ease isolation.


Stop sacrificing yourself for approval or comfort. True success begins when you choose fulfillment, trust, and joy first. Your inner state creates your next reality.

Know Your Worth

You are doing BIG things. You deserve a round of applause!


One of the most empowering things you can do is follow through on something that no one "asked" you to do in the first place. And that's what you'll do every day as a entreprenuer, and an artist, a creator.


It is no small feat. Don't be afraid to pat yourself on the back, and also to give yourself a break if you're not doing things perfectly. After all, you've never done this before!


Solopreneurship isn’t just about money. It's about wisdom and enlightenment. It teaches you core life lessions: how to receive, how to be seen, and how to be sustained. Experience sacred alignment by discovering your soul's purpose, and sacred reciprocity by turning your talents into wealth.


The Bigger Picture

Self-healing isn’t a luxury for solo entrepreneurs—it’s the foundation of sustainable success.


Before we can "make it" as a solopreneur, we must get grounded in our own energy, and know firmly what is our truth, our talents, our values, our special offering to the world. This means confronting and healing (processing, accepting, forgiving) our wounds around vulnerability and visibility


Tend to your inner world, and your business will grow from a place of wholeness, creativity, and genuine power. When you up-level internally, the external world follows.


Cheers to healing, hope and beautiful new beginnings.


Go first. Jump in. Lead by example. Be the change. Commit to your dreams. Ride the wave. Enjoy the journey. Love yourself.


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Erin Ratliff is a holistic business coach and consultant specializing in organic growth + visibility for heart-led soul-preneurs and energy-sensitive self-starters in pursuit of personal and planetary healing.


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